In the world of sports, whistles signal the start of a game, a call for fairness, or the end of a contest. For Becky Ramirez, a simple whistle was more than a tool — it was a lifeline that changed the trajectory of her life.
Raised in the small town of Deleon, Texas, Ramirez’s story begins with humble roots and big values. As a high school student in need of financial stability, she was handed a whistle by her coach and told, “Go ref those little kids and don’t mess up.” What began as a way to make ends meet quickly became a source of strength, direction, and identity.
Officiating didn’t just shape Ramirez’s career — it saved her life. Through the noise of the gym and the pressure of making split-second calls, Ramirez found confidence, community, and a sense of purpose that carried her through uncertain times. That early lifeline turned into a 30-year officiating career marked by resilience, leadership, and advocacy for others who, like her, could use a whistle to find their way.
In her quest to give back, Ramirez founded iREF Big Balls Up Inc., a boldly named organization symbolizing the courage and resilience needed in officiating. It was built on a simple but powerful mission: to equip, mentor, and inspire the next generation of sports officials. Under her leadership, the organization has distributed over 1,000 whistles, offering young officials the tools, guidance, and confidence to step onto the court or field.
“Officiating teaches you to manage pressure, personalities, and unexpected situations,” Ramirez says. “It humbles you, strengthens you, and gives you a front-row seat to leadership in action.”
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